The Giving Lot

The place in Paid For Car where people who are blessed with enough sell their cars cheaply or give them away to help another person โ€” and get to know who it went to.

Three kinds of posts

๐Ÿš— Car Available

Givers list their car with the template below โ€” honest condition, firm price (or free), and who they're hoping to help.

๐Ÿ™‹ Car Needed

Seekers share their situation briefly: why a car would change things, what they can afford, and their general area. No personal details in public โ€” contact moves to private messages.

๐Ÿ’› Follow-Up

Recipients post an update with the car โ€” a photo, how it's going, what it's made possible. Even months later, even anonymously. This is how Givers see their help mattered.

The rules

  1. Giver's choice, always. The Giver picks the recipient. No voting, no campaigning, no public arguments about who deserved it. The recipient stays anonymous unless both sides agree to share publicly.
  2. No flipping. Recipients agree not to resell the car quickly for profit โ€” if you don't need it, don't take away an opportunity for someone else.
  3. Honest listings. Roadworthy, or clearly described as needs-work โ€” including what's wrong and roughly what it would cost to fix, if you know. No hiding major or minor issues: if it's something you'd want to know about, the recipient should know about it too. At the same time, receivers shouldn't expect every squeak and rattle to be identified โ€” these are paid-for cars, and those sounds are money staying in your pocket.
  4. No dealers. Person-to-person only. Dealers, curbstoners, and anyone listing multiple cars get removed.
  5. Real paperwork, every time. A written bill of sale (both sides keep a signed copy), and our title-transfer best practices. Givers: remove your plates and cancel insurance once the transfer is complete.
  6. Meet safely. Public place, bring someone with you, no wire transfers โ€” cash or cashier's check in person, ideally at the recipient's bank or the DMV. Never pay before seeing the car.
  7. Dignity for seekers. Needing help isn't a character flaw. No shaming, no demanding proof of hardship, no interrogating someone's story.
  8. Moderators handle scams, not decisions. Moderators remove fake listings, scammers, and abusive behavior. They never override a Giver's choice of recipient.
Enforcement: warning first, removal from the section second, instant ban for scams or threats. If something feels off, report it to the moderators โ€” don't confront anyone publicly.

Listing template (for Givers)

Car: (year, make, model, mileage) VIN: (optional โ€” 17 characters; share privately if you prefer. We use it to verify the exact year, make, model, and trim for you) Condition: (honest description โ€” what works, what doesn't, known issues) Photos: (at least a few, including any damage) Price/terms: (dollar amount or "free" โ€” firm, no auctions) Location: (city/state โ€” general area; exact address in private messages only) Who I'm hoping to help: (e.g. "a working parent," "a young person starting out," "anyone who needs it") Pickup timeline: (how soon you'd like it gone)

Join the Giving Lot โ€” it's in our Facebook group