The Giving Lot
The place in Paid For Car where people who are blessed with enough sell their cars cheaply or give them away to help another person โ and get to know who it went to.
Three kinds of posts
๐ Car Available
Givers list their car with the template below โ honest condition, firm price (or free), and who they're hoping to help.
๐ Car Needed
Seekers share their situation briefly: why a car would change things, what they can afford, and their general area. No personal details in public โ contact moves to private messages.
๐ Follow-Up
Recipients post an update with the car โ a photo, how it's going, what it's made possible. Even months later, even anonymously. This is how Givers see their help mattered.
The rules
- Giver's choice, always. The Giver picks the recipient. No voting, no campaigning, no public arguments about who deserved it. The recipient stays anonymous unless both sides agree to share publicly.
- No flipping. Recipients agree not to resell the car quickly for profit โ if you don't need it, don't take away an opportunity for someone else.
- Honest listings. Roadworthy, or clearly described as needs-work โ including what's wrong and roughly what it would cost to fix, if you know. No hiding major or minor issues: if it's something you'd want to know about, the recipient should know about it too. At the same time, receivers shouldn't expect every squeak and rattle to be identified โ these are paid-for cars, and those sounds are money staying in your pocket.
- No dealers. Person-to-person only. Dealers, curbstoners, and anyone listing multiple cars get removed.
- Real paperwork, every time. A written bill of sale (both sides keep a signed copy), and our title-transfer best practices. Givers: remove your plates and cancel insurance once the transfer is complete.
- Meet safely. Public place, bring someone with you, no wire transfers โ cash or cashier's check in person, ideally at the recipient's bank or the DMV. Never pay before seeing the car.
- Dignity for seekers. Needing help isn't a character flaw. No shaming, no demanding proof of hardship, no interrogating someone's story.
- Moderators handle scams, not decisions. Moderators remove fake listings, scammers, and abusive behavior. They never override a Giver's choice of recipient.
Enforcement: warning first, removal from the section second, instant ban for scams or threats. If something feels off, report it to the moderators โ don't confront anyone publicly.
Listing template (for Givers)
Car: (year, make, model, mileage)
VIN: (optional โ 17 characters; share privately if you prefer. We use it to verify the exact year, make, model, and trim for you)
Condition: (honest description โ what works, what doesn't, known issues)
Photos: (at least a few, including any damage)
Price/terms: (dollar amount or "free" โ firm, no auctions)
Location: (city/state โ general area; exact address in private messages only)
Who I'm hoping to help: (e.g. "a working parent," "a young person starting out," "anyone who needs it")
Pickup timeline: (how soon you'd like it gone)